I have to agree. If you borrow something it is your responsibility to return it in the same condition. If it would have been his, would he have driven it until it would not move another foot? It did have gauges and idiot lights that he ignored, after all.
While I must agree on a general principle, I believe in grace. My God has forgiven me so I forgive others. But even still I have to correct at least two misconceptions that seem to be floating around this thread:
1.
He stopped the vehicle when he saw that the temperature was getting pretty high. It did not stop itself. As far as I am concerned if I would have been driving it I'm not sure I would've noticed it either, and since someone else is at fault for damaging the vehicle I am not going to lay on him the misfortune of paying for two cars (remember his car was in the shop when this happened) when he didn't do anything irresponsible with the vehicle.
2.
He offered to pay for the vehicle. He is not some deadbeat who everyone should be screaming at for him ruining my car and just saying "Tough luck". He apologized vehemently and insisted on paying to put a new engine in the car for me.
I Turned Him Down. As far as I'm concerned the matter with him is settled. I'm sorry if I painted him in a horrible light I was extremely frustrated at the time of writing the first post. But I must emphasize that, not only do I believe that he handled the situation with a reasonable amount of care, but he tried to pay to fix the problem that he created unintentionally. So I don't need any more posts telling me to go kick him in the nuts over this. I put myself in this situation. So call me a fool if you must but right now I'm just trying to figure out how to get out of it
Now back to car stuff.
Update:Today I finally returned home from another trip and had a chance to play with the rabbit. I took it out and had my dad pull it behind his truck to see if it would start. With a little convincing, it started up and ran rough. I had to provide some throttle to keep it going at first but after maybe 20-30 seconds it idled with the cold start lever out. Now remember before I loaned the vehicle out it already had a little bit of trouble running and idling when cold since I did my Headgasket and had only roughly timed the engine. After letting the car run for about a minute at most, I shut the car back down and tried to start it with the starter. It fired right up again. This is making me seriously consider my glow plugs as a partial culprit (at least for not starting at all) since when I tried to test one i couldn't get even a bit of heat out of it. I thought it might just be my testing ability at first. But after watching a few Youtube videos I was doing everything correctly I believe.
So my questions are these:
1. The engine seemed to run fairly ok after it warmed up even a small amount. So I'm curious if this engine is salvageable? I guess the only way to know for sure is to do a complete tear-down/rebuild to which i ask my next point.
2. How hard is it to rebuild one of these engine? I'm a fair shadetree mechanic, did my own headgasket/timing belt jobs , replaced my transmission ect. But i've never torn an engine completely down. Though I've been wanting to try my hand at it sometime anyway, so even if i decide to scrap this engine i'll probably tear it down and play with it to familiarize myself with it.
3. Cost/benefit analysis of tearing this engine apart and trying to replace some parts and get it up and running again vs. buying a used engine and possibly even a td since i'm looking to turbo this car anyway. (keeping in mind that I'm not exactly broke but not rich either considering my wife will probably kill me if i have to put much more money into this car, but i'm positively made of time since i'm out of a job right now.)
4. Anyone know what size compression tester fitting works on these engines? I've got a compression tester that has an 18mm and a 14mm fitting but both are too big for the glow plug hole i believe.
That's all for now. I think the rabbit still has a pulse (I drove it back into the drive way
) but it's going to take some work to get back on the road... any help from you guys would be greatly appreciated! Everyone has been really great and supportive of my endeavor from the beginning with this little guy and I even appreciate all of your outrage over the situation! I just hope I can get this guy back on the road!